Tag: energy

One Tip for Intimacy (In Today’s Busy World)

Have your mornings lost their passion and connection? Do you find yourself rushing out of bed and out the door having barely spoken to your partner? Or are you so exhausted from your day that you fall asleep before hugging, kissing or connecting with your partner? We and many couples we talk to have lives that are so busy and hectic, that they barely stop, to look at each other and connect.

One day I went to our bookshelf and there was the “The Tao of Sexology” by Dr. Stephen T. Chang. I was reminded about the Morning and Evening Prayer. It’s a way to connect in busy times. Lewis and I like it for that very reason. We don’t do it every day and sometimes a week or two will go by but we are happy when we do take the time for this practice.

In a nutshell, a couple lays together naked for about 5 minutes with lips locked. The man does penetrate the woman and you breathe together. There is an energetic flow that feels good. This technique is simple, intimate and best of all can be tailored to your time frame.

Good Luck !

A More Romantic Bedroom-2 Tips

Feng Shui suggests these two tips for improving the romantic energy of your bedroom.

1. Move your bed
If one person is against a wall they may feel confined or disempowered in the relationship. Place the bed so there is equal space on either side, allowing for equal enjoyment in the relationship. The ideal position of the bed will be on the opposite side of the room from the door, but not directly in line with it.

2. Bring romance chi into the bedroom
Be sure to place romantic imagery in these two key places in the bedroom: the wall opposite the foot of the bed and whatever area of the room you first see when you enter. Place romantic imagery in these places. Display beautiful, romantic artwork, flowers, and anything in pairs (such as birds, cherubs, candles, or decorative pillows). Use a round mirror, as the shape signifies completion and unity.